WHAT ARE ENERGETIC PATTERNS?

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Imagine you’re like a house, and your energetic patterns are the blueprint that determines how sturdy and well-built you are. When everything is in harmony, it’s like your house is standing strong against any storm. But when there’s a hiccup in the blueprint, it’s as if a crack forms in the foundation, leading to all sorts of issues. Your body, mind, and spirit are interconnected as parts of an energetic blueprint. When they’re all working together seamlessly, you feel like you’re firing on all cylinders. Your physical health, emotional well-being, mental clarity, and spiritual connection are all in sync, creating this beautiful symphony of vitality. Just like a house can develop structural problems over time, your energetic patterns can also become disrupted or imbalanced. Maybe it’s due to stress, trauma, unhealthy habits, or even environmental factors. Whatever the cause, these disruptions can throw everything out of whack. Think of it […]

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HOW TO GROUND YOURSELF IN THE MOMENT

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You’re standing on the edge of a turbulent ocean of emotions— anxiety, anger, sadness—ready to sink you in its waves. Fear not because grounding is your sturdy lifeboat, your trusty anchor in this stormy sea of feelings. So, what’s this grounding thing all about? It’s like having a toolbox full of strategies to keep those overwhelming emotions at bay. It’s about finding ways to distract yourself from the chaos inside your mind and steer yourself back to calmer waters. Think of it as your mental escape plan, your emergency exit when things get too intense. Grounding is about finding your center, creating a haven within yourself, and giving yourself the space to breathe amidst the whirlwind of emotions. Sometimes, grounding might mean finding something to focus on, like the steady rhythm of your breath or the sensation of your feet firmly planted on the ground. Other times, it could be […]

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HOW TO SPEAK YOUR TRUTH | UNBLOCKING THE THROAT CHAKRA

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Imagine your words as seeds scattered in the fertile soil of your mind, each one holding the potential to shape your reality. What we speak isn’t merely sound waves; it’s the blueprint of our intentions. Every syllable we utter carries weight, either building bridges to our dreams or erecting barriers against our progress. It’s like wielding a double-edged sword; our language can either empower us to conquer new horizons or become a weapon that cuts us off from our potential. Think of your mind as a vast landscape, where thoughts roam freely like wild stallions. The language we use acts as the reins, guiding these thoughts toward either self-fulfilment or self-sabotage. It’s not just about the words we speak; it’s about the energy they carry, resonating within us and shaping our inner and outer worlds alike. So, how do we harness this power to speak our truth with clarity and […]

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HOW TO LIVE FROM A PLACE OF LOVE (INSTEAD OF FEAR)

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WHY ARE WE OFTEN SO HELD BACK BY FEAR? It’s a question that’s been pondered for generations and good reason. Fear isn’t just a passing emotion; it’s a primal instinct deeply ingrained in our psyche since the dawn of humanity. From the earliest days of our existence, fear has served as a crucial survival mechanism, guiding us away from danger and toward safety. But somewhere along the winding path of human evolution, our innate fears have morphed into something more complex. No longer just signals to flee from predators or avoid hazardous situations, our fears now manifest as projections, seeking to shield us from perceived threats, real or imagined. We’ve developed a tendency to project our fears onto the unknown, crafting narratives of danger and discomfort to protect ourselves from potential harm. Consider the example of New York City. Having lived in the Bronx for years before moving to Scotland, […]

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DON’T BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU CONCEIVE

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Letting go of limiting beliefs is pivotal to unlocking your full potential and embracing true self-empowerment. It’s like shedding old, heavy layers that have been weighing you down, preventing you from soaring to new heights. Think about it: from a young age, we absorb messages from our environment, whether it’s from family, friends, or society at large. These messages can shape our beliefs about ourselves and the world around us. Just like your grandmother’s comment about your hair not being suitable for an updo, these beliefs can become deeply ingrained in our psyche, influencing how we perceive ourselves and how we navigate through life. But beliefs are not set in stone. They are like seeds planted in the fertile soil of our minds, waiting to be nurtured or uprooted. The power lies within us to challenge these beliefs, to question their validity, and to choose whether to continue holding onto […]

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WHAT I’VE LEARNED FIVE YEARS AFTER ADOPTING A MEDITATION PRACTICE

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The universe speaks to us in whispers, weaving subtle signs and synchronicities into the fabric of our daily lives. Through meditation, I’ve learned to attune myself to these cosmic nudges, surrendering the need for control and embracing the flow of intuition. From chance encounters to serendipitous occurrences, I’ve come to recognize that nothing is random; everything unfolds with purpose and meaning.

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MASTERING YOUR EGO

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That little voice inside us, our ego, it’s like our loyal sidekick on the one hand, but a pesky troublemaker on the other. Your ego is like a bouncer at a club. It’s there to protect you, make sure you’re safe, and keep out the riff-raff. But sometimes, it gets a bit carried away, doesn’t it? It starts throwing its weight around, causing trouble, and ruining the vibe. And before you know it, you’re left wondering, “Who invited this guy?” Mastering yourself is like being the conductor of an orchestra. You’ve got all these different parts of yourself playing their tunes, and you’re there, in the middle, keeping everything in harmony. And to do that, you’ve got to learn to silence the ego when it starts playing too loudly Silencing the ego is a bit like decluttering your closet; you sift through all those clothes, memories, and long outdated beliefs, […]

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A GUIDE TO ENERGY HEALING BATHS FOR EMPATHS AND HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE

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Ever find yourself absorbing the energy around you like a sponge, leaving you drained and overwhelmed? If you’re nodding along, you might be an Empath or a Highly Sensitive Person, navigating a world that can feel like an emotional minefield. But fear not, because, amidst the chaos, there lies a sanctuary – the perfect energy healing bath tailored just for you. Imagine you step into a serene oasis, the warm embrace of water enveloping you like a gentle hug from the universe. As you sink into the depths, the weight of the world begins to melt away, leaving nothing but a sense of tranquility in its wake. This isn’t just any bath; it’s a sanctuary for your soul, a refuge from the storm raging outside. It’s not just the water and bubbles, but the carefully curated ingredients designed to soothe both body and mind. Imagine the scent of lavender filling […]

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THERE IS NO SPECTRUM IN ALCOHOL-FREE LIVING

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Many times, I convinced myself that I had cracked the code – that I had uncovered the secret formula for a healthy relationship with alcohol. Perhaps you’re feeling this way too, but let’s be real here: it’s all smoke and mirrors. These arbitrary rules we create might give us a fleeting sense of control, but deep down, we know it’s bulls**t.

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HOW TO RELEASE BURDENS AND EMBRACE FORGIVENESS

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The journey to releasing attachments to our burdens begins with acknowledging our right to happiness. It’s like reclaiming a lost treasure buried deep within us. But often, our inability to let go stems from a lack of self-awareness and boundaries. Without boundaries, we allow our emotional and spiritual space to be invaded, leaving us depleted and robbed of our peace. Without self-awareness, we stumble through life, making decisions without a compass, blindly following the patterns imprinted upon us from birth.

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APPROVAL, ADDICTION, AND APPROVAL ADDICTION

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“If you are an approval addict, your behaviour is as easy to control as that of any other junkie. All a manipulator need do is a simple two-step process: Give you what you crave, and then threaten to take it away. Every drug dealer in the world plays this game. -Harriet B. Braiker Have you ever felt like you’re constantly chasing approval, like it’s the fuel that keeps you going? That quote by Harriet B. Braker truly struck a chord with me. The desire for approval is like being hooked on a drug.  No matter how much you receive, you’re always craving that next hit of validation. I’ve realized that at the core of approval addiction lies a lack of self-awareness. We’re so focused on seeking external validation that we forget who we truly are. Have you ever found yourself bending over backwards for people who don’t appreciate you? It’s […]

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WHY GIVING YOURSELF ULTIMATUMS WON’T DRIVE REAL CHANGE

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“All that you give to yourself you are giving to others.” Anthony de Mello Let’s talk ultimatums. They’re like ominous storm clouds looming on the horizon, casting a shadow over everything– threatening, restrictive, and honestly, passive-aggressive. Imagine being the one dishing out these ultimatums to yourself. Sounds grim, right? Well, that was my gig for a while; I was the master of self-inflicted ultimatums, constantly boxing myself into corners. It was all part of my perfectionistic paradox–an “all or nothing” mantra. If I couldn’t have it all, I’d settle for nothing. Talk about setting myself up for disappointment. “Either this guy is ‘the one,’ or I’m swearing off dating forever.”“Either I snag this promotion, or I’m storming out of this job.”“Either I stick to this diet religiously, or I’m doomed to be a failure for eternity.” Pretty harsh, huh? So why did I continue to subject myself to this mental […]

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